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's creative community to share creative community children's Sky City,rayban pas cher, a man named Feng Shao published a one-year-old boy, "application", said "I applied for withdrawal, I do not want to ruin my ideal in this silly exam." This article not only demonstrates the 10-year-old children to think of the "ideal" and other issues, but also expressed his dissatisfaction with the various rigid school system. His expression immediately sparked concern and discussion sky city children, teachers and parents. With the previous "cynic" different, he does not exclude the "evil" of the college entrance examination system, nor does the love of learning, but his hope is that "more comfortable, more freedom to go to school." After "tiger mother",franklin marshall pas cher, "wolf dad" trend, the people's attention directly to the main school education - children really thinking,hermes pas cher, what is required. "Can not let our school system is more softer, leaving a number of different kids 'freedom of choice' " This is the school, parents and children need to work together to think and discuss. Origin ▶ ▶ "In addition to the examination position, what are we left with '" My ideal is to live together and love the girls, even to cut firewood, scavenging for a living. "" For decades spent on the way to school youth, and ultimately only looking for a high-wage working a little bit, it makes sense '"numerous wars, how much blood and tears and broken up, what kind of damage not have lofty ideals of people doing '" is nothing more than a day in class, assignments,http://fenghuangbbs.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=6995, exams, position, In addition to these, we have what "These words seem deviant withdraw an application from one of Shao Feng, Feng Shao this article talk about ideals, about ambition, and the" lofty ideals have a skeptical attitude. "Surprisingly, Feng Shao is not a teacher in the eyes of a" bad boy "is not a cynical person. Instead, he was all-round development of a standard "Excellence": because he honors even jump three in elementary school, junior high school as young as 10 years old have the first grade. In his spare time, he also worked as host, television drama filmed earlier in math, piano, calligraphy competitions won numerous awards. He specializes in writing, is "growing Week" column young writer hired young reporter. "He wants to live is to have time practicing, painting, able to observe his favorite animals and insect specimens, to have time to climb, I want to learn to learn,karen millen sale, tired when you can rest," Feng Shao Yi's father Feng Yingang told reporters. In the interview, Feng Shao a more direct expression of his dissatisfaction: "Now is the end of secondary education entrance examination, and if I achieve this goal through other ways, why do we have to stay in school every day to accept this rigid Education "In 冯银刚 view," he should not be happy from the beginning of junior high school, "Feng Yingang memories, Feng Shao during a primary virtue of their clever" A few days will be able to read a textbook, and can test a good results ", so the time spent in learning is not much; while he participated in a variety of extracurricular activities filming TV drama,http://www.geol.sci.hiroshima-u.ac.jp/~environ/cgi-bin/lightlight.cgi?res=3387392, painting, writing, etc.," colorful life, excellent results. " "But after junior high school teaching more boring, most of the time, do your homework, exams, ranking, could not get the child while the first examination after studies,lancel pas cher, Feng Shao a class 9, 100 more than the year Rank does not make the children, teachers and parents satisfied with the sudden change of environment and the psychological gap made him feel suddenly difficult to adapt. "Feng Yingang said. In addition, Ping Yingang view, different teaching methods will affect their perception of the school and identity. "Shao an elementary level teachers teaching more moderate, will encourage students to participate in the debate team and some other extra-curricular activities for students and even some small sweetness of encouragement." Feng Yingang briefed reporters. Progress ▶ ▶ reached a "memorandum of understanding his son" can apply for suspension of a withdrawal application Shao Feng in the sky city communities caused a lot of attention, although many users said, "so little kids can honestly say that their own ideas," but von Shao still have to face a number of Paizhuan and questioned. For is not really going to drop this critical issue, Feng Shao subsequently published an article to clarify their own purpose of this move: "openly express their views, then look at everyone's opinion"; "indicates that there is a perception of themselves"; and "Through dialogue to choose a way acceptable to all, causing the attention of parents and teachers." In this article, he clearly responded, "to read, to learn, just can not let a little more comfortable to go to school " In his mind, he wrote not think a person's attitude, but his final choice with a way to express it. As he wished, to this "application" successfully touched Ping Yingang. "Distressed" Ping Yingang recalls that he first saw the reaction when this application does not like children to worry about, "growled as flash floods", "think through microblogging because the child can understand the pressure; After each test, Our parents are able to receive information about the child's school performance ranking sent to, a long time will feel the pressure, let alone a child, consider the exam, ranking each day will inevitably feel dull. "his opinion, Feng Shao Yi The rebellion within the controllable range. "Although I do not agree with this way of education, but as a parent there is no other way," said Feng Yingang, as a parent myself prefer a combination of Chinese and Western education, that is, that academic performance and personal development of other comprehensive ability, "but now . the entrance way will inevitably lead to achievement-oriented now the mode of education,polo ralph lauren pas cher, as parents we are passive "Feng Shao said, negotiated a compromise, he and 冯银刚 reached a" memorandum of understanding father and son ", which has four important resolutions:" I do not betray their sovereignty, Dad just enjoy guardianship and I continue to go to school, you can also apply for leave of absence, but the learning does not stop. Allow me to protest to protest the implementation of effective family by two votes, rejected the parents around me long cruise within three meters. " controversy ▶ ▶ "can not let the child more comfortable reading " Feng Shao one to this "application" published in the sky out of the city, immediately sparked age children and as a "guardian angel group" of writers, teachers attention. "You see a little bit of shock to this confession of it. Although sometimes I do not like learning, class, exam, but my sister has been telling me the boat, reading is not to find a good job, it is a very worldly thoughts. Alive , should maintain a curiosity to learn more about their own survival in this world, for themselves, but also a process of continuous improvement of self. "network called" Iraq a laugh,http://park17.wakwak.com/~linkage/cgi-bin/honey/honey.cgi?mode=res&no%E8%81%BDopina:, "the students said. Book editor, book reviewer, teacher groups 马伯贤 guardian angels said: "At least you have been to this application so that teachers and parents have to reflect on, this is a good start in life long way to go, with a future perspective. Now, there may be a different idea of ​​"young writer, guardian angel group members" charity "is that children should respect the rights of expression," charity "explains:" Thanks to Sky City had a vent channel for children, I believe the children vent over,armani, why have doing this. "This message is to get Feng Shao a reply" Thank you! you know me. " In this about "freedom of space" debate, let the big people surprised not only the children's ideas, but more importantly is their expression. Feng Shao an independent thinking to many teachers and parents brought shock, writers, guardian angel group teacher Zheng Feng Shao Feng joked one for Mr. Feng Xiao, because "I told you kids obviously not." Based on this, the teacher, guide parents, although more modest, but also demonstrates the equal dialogue gesture. The reporters found that parents submissive or rebellious outdated, like Feng Shao one such attempt by means of a negotiated solution to the debate on the issue has become a new trend in children. After Feng Shao Yi, Xuzhou City, Jiangsu Province, Shu middle schools students, small writer Yu Ren Qiang put themselves and their parents a "democratic debate" fight for access rights process labeled space. In this simulation of the court debate, both sides have stated their reasons, but also to develop the "announcement", as family members must comply with the guidelines. ▶ ▶ started school freshmen need some adaptation period reporter then interviewed Feng Shao a school where the Gongbei school. A teacher Dean said as compared to the primary,http://www.daitofarm.co.jp/guestbook/jawanote.cgi, secondary subjects increased difficulty bigger, academic pressure has increased, while the students due to changes in the environment also requires a certain adjustment period, so newly enrolled students generally will produce some suited. But most students are not suited to maintain only a month or so. For this case, she said, the first month of school seen as freshmen adjustment period, in terms of discipline, moral,http://tsuruo.jp/cgi-def/admin/C-002/found/visit/main.pl, family communication, etc. to help students adapt to the new environment as soon as possible. "With different primary and secondary schools must face the academic pressure,burberry pas cher, which is an objective problem can not be avoided, but we emphasize equitable education, try to guide students to dilute the rankings, more importantly, you want to develop students' self-learning ability." The teacher said, school arranged a wealth of extracurricular activities for students to choose, "but some students may hobbies persistent one aspect, our activities can not meet him, this situation is inevitable,burberry pas cher, but also need to strengthen communication." mentality in students the stress, the teacher said, students encounter problems should strengthen communication with the class teacher, "Our teachers have studied educational psychology and participate in relevant training can give students to guide; However, due to his classmates over the and more difficult to balance the moment, the psychological pressure of some students not obvious if the teacher may have been neglected, so it needs teachers,http://www.grn.mmtr.or.jp/~rain/snote.cgi, parents and students to enhance communication. "■ Experts recommend children and social development is more important than learning, South China Normal University Professor of Education Sciences, South China Normal University, Professor of Education Sciences, Cheng Cheng Huai Huai said: "From a macro perspective, now increasingly open society, the young people's education has also changed, their desire to express their views more strongly than ever, therefore, Whether parents and teachers on how to raise a child requests and comments, should be based on effective communication, respect for children's interest and willingness on the basis of. "Meanwhile, his analysis, teenagers tend to use their own familiar way and can be mastered with parents, teachers communication; For now the kids, the Internet, text messaging has infiltrated their lives, to express their views so that they feel more cynical, reducing the embarrassment and the shackles of the past propriety by this means, therefore, will use the new channels of expression inevitable society. He suggested that educators in the way education should be more emphasis on strategies, such as the ability to use the same means to provide convincing data on the same expression platform for effective child guidance. Huai Cheng believes that these methods will help win the child's psychological identity. "In addition, objective reason things happen is what society expects of children without regard to their own aspirations and feelings of the child, it also shows that our education system farther away from real life." Huai Cheng said, as the child grows and the formation of self-awareness, the requirements of autonomy and freedom will gradually increase, and this requires that schools and parents to provide them with more free space. "Development of each child is different, learning is just one aspect of personality and social development occupies a more important role in the child's growth, but we are rarely taken into account education." Cheng Huai suggested that schools and parents On the one hand should be appropriate to reduce the academic burden on the child, give the child the freedom to leave the development of a certain space, attention to different kids of different development trajectories; on the other hand, he believes that this is precisely the case, said the emergence of our education system has been urgently reforms. Give their children more freedom to choose the space velocity Liu Qian ■ Weekly Review-year-old "Excellence" do not want to ruin the ideal boring exam, apply for withdrawal fight for the "free space." Of course, just Feng Shao an own ideas only, there are actually a lot of kids this idea, but often big people as "nonsense." This little surprised, Feng Shao after a city in the sky, expressed this idea has attracted wide attention, and perhaps our concept of education is taking place quietly changed. In the traditional Chinese family education, parents as overbearing gardener, complete with their own ideals and sense of fun, "trim" the child. Children time and time again to be arranged: learn piano, learn Olympiad, cram into a variety of ...... "Tiger Mom," "Eagle Dad" has even more to the extreme view of this kind of education. So although we see the "tiger mother", "Eagle Dad" cultivate a small number of elite, the more of a mental and physical exhaustion, no passion, with the flow of young people. In the Disney movie, well-behaved kids who study hard day's often collapse in a sudden epiphany: Life is not subordinate to and reading awards, but took off his clothes and screaming towards the sea swim, and then choose their favorite way of life . However, the reality in China, Feng Shao a subsequent brave or "somewhat guilty" to move an article to clarify the purpose of its own: "openly express their views, then look at everyone's opinion"; and "through dialogue select a acceptable to all kinds of ways, causing the attention of parents and teachers. " His father Feng Yingang said: "Although I do not agree with this way of education, but as a parent there is no other way." In fact, most of the father's heart was "split." On the one hand they want their children to "become an ordinary happy person", on the other hand they are nothing but deep in their hearts to build a "great kid" desire. Arrangements heavy "educational mission", as clouds obscured the sky that innocent childhood. Ping Yingang good, allowing the child be "controlled" experiment. I have also been to this school,burberry pas cher, parents "forced" hated school education. But think about the future of the child is also really chances. Until then spent some time to the United States, see U.S. kids learned to select and choose what you want in life is a pity. In Canada, more than high school core subjects, many of them are elective, the children find themselves through elective interest. They also have a "shadow day", a day with Mom and Dad, look at how they work. Particularly pleased child, one day no class. There is a "career day", you want to barber, barber shop with one day to go; want a lawyer, law firm with one day to go; want to nurse, went to the hospital with the day. Schools have long done job analysis test, the design problem is very clever, does not directly ask what kind of job you like, through a variety of small problems,longchamp, spell out your career orientation. But we never let the kids think "what suits their own," but what good professional employment prospects, we are to test. Kids really thought about what kind of life does not allow their own ideas. Last year the United States has 1.2 million high school students drop out of school, only 70 percent of high school students can get a diploma. Because the United States is the children make their own choices, "I do not want to," "do not want to read," Parents can not force him. There are some people completely choose according to their own hobby business or other social events, when they made certain achievements, can still apply for a first-class university, become outstanding talent. Others may choose vocational education, as do blue-collar very happy. American children have long formed a social diversion. China's situation is that parents are forcing children to study society. So many educators in the study of American education that Chinese education is only an intermediate level of care to the children, and there are those who are particularly outstanding personality was strangled, poor children were delayed. The United States can choose various levels of education allows children get what they want, because society needs talent is multi-layered. Once said that "the quality of education in the United States," the famous yellow all the more US-based educators say school education, family education, social education, self-education and four in one, but only the first three legs of the tripod,http://onikam.com/joyful/joyful.cgi?post=U04&, what kind of life can be photographed landscapes, depends on a tripod self-education can provide much of the frame. So let the children choose their own role in his life is particularly important. "Competitiveness generation: the Massachusetts Institute of China's total godson interviewer notes," In the past 20 years at MIT freshmen selection interview work, Miss Jiang Peirong found a surprising pattern: those with just a piece of paper IQ scores of applicants who are often shut out of Massachusetts - American top-level universities value, not just academic achievement, more important is the overall health of the people and independent thinking. And independent thinking is the result of self-selection. Some parents say that people are indolent, be sure it is in accordance with the child's choice, "eat, drink," Feng Shao a choice is "comfortable reading" In fact, he had not thought about making this choice even when the people in the community There settle down in this. This is when you need the parents to boot. Secondary schools in the United States, in addition to successful entrepreneurs, academics to do the report, but also for those who scavenger, firefighters, waiters and even go to school about their lives, let the children know that this is the "social" and "life", to see if they are so willing to choose their own future life,http://www.sky.icn-tv.ne.jp/~sayo-web/cgi-bin/bbs/bbs.cgi, and successful people in China will be listed in the school were invited. So I was inspired to start primary school children after each holiday, and if you go to the factory interview, take him, let him know the lives of migrant workers. It also took him to see "Phoenix," the well-being of life, and to explore a variety of life on which: What kind of life is worth living. This approach seems to be quite useful, from junior high school, he began to understand how his own way to go, study hard, never let the parents consciously force. In fact, adult society seems to have to be a survival race, we have been a variety of competing edification smoke was extremely anxious. Often suspect that this life really so decide the outcome of a "battle" it A good job, good job tired like a dog, so life is even more "successful" So the children choose some comfortable way, I do not object. However, my son went to the factory to see the lives of migrant workers and read a lot of "well-being of life", the very solemnly told me that he did not want to become a social person lower. So I was thinking, maybe when the kids grow up to self-consciousness awakening that day,chanel pas cher, can pleasantly surprised by their choices have to explore the infinite passion of life, rather than find themselves sadly scarred, physically and mentally exhausted powerless. A Ⅱ 05-A Ⅱ 08 edition Planning Coordinator: Liu Qian